Available Now! Surviving the Horror of Online Meetings

Thanks for being a Think With Ink subscriber! I’m very happy to announce my new book, Surviving the Horror of Online Meetings, is available now on Amazon!


This book has been a labor of love with friends and colleagues including Lauren Green, Heather Martinez, and Mark Monlux. I’ve drawn best practices from The Grove Consultants, Liberating Structures, Red Teaming, and many other facilitation disciplines and applied them to online facilitation. It’s a collection of the tips, tricks and methods I’ve learned from years of teaching, designing, and delivering virtual facilitation.

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Along with the book, I’ve launched Survival Tips, a new blog focused solely on VIRTUAL facilitation. Please note that being a Think With Ink is returning to form to focus on VISUAL facilitation methods. Being a Think With Ink subscriber won’t automatically make you a Survival Tips subscriber: you need to sign up! When you sign up, you’ll receive a free download on the new etiquette of online meetings to share with your participants.

And as always, I’ll never sell or share your information with anyone.


What’s the book all about? Surviving the Horror of Online Meetings is all about designing and delivering great virtual meetings.
In it, you’ll find:

  • How to prevent and overcome technology failures

  • How to manage difficult personalities

  • How to head off distraction and disengagement

  • How to show up as your best self

  • How to make decisions that stick

  • How to create an experience of trust, safety, engagement, and inclusion

It’s a survival guide for the online world. You can defeat the Meeting Monsters that lurk at the edges of online meetings.

Available now on Amazon


What people are saying about Surviving the Horror of Online Meetings

In this new normal we’re all participating in more online meetings. Brian’s fantastic new book captures what he’s learned the hard way in mastering online meetings into an espresso shot of ideas, practices, and tools to help you master online meetings too.
— Mike Rohde, bestselling author of The Sketchnote Handbook
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Brian Tarallo packed his book with hundreds of best practices that you can immediately use to unmask meeting monsters and make online time together more humane for both you and your participants.
— Brandy Agerbeck, Loosetooth.com, author of The Idea Shapers: The power of putting your thinking into your own hands
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Brian’s book of ‘frights’ appears after a year of pandemic enforced on-line meetings, and what is looking to be an unprecedented acceleration in the use of collaboration technology. I read his suggestions through the filter of 45 years of experience in this field and a complete pivot to on-line work myself, and it rings true and comprehensive. Bravo! My adrenaline is already pumping as I see those gremlins running for cover.
— David Sibbet, founder and CEO of The Grove Consultants International


Don’t be a victim to bad online meetings! Even if you’re not a professional facilitator, Surviving the Horror of Online Meetings will show you how to take the dread out of online meetings. With an eye towards inclusion and equitable decision making, it will teach you to translate in-person meetings to the virtual space. It’s an essential guide on how to create productive spaces for the people online.

Announcing: Surviving the Horror of Online Meetings

Thanks for being a Think With Ink subscriber! 2020 saw a pivot from VISUAL to VIRTUAL facilitation. In 2021, Think With Ink will return to form and refocus on visual facilitation methods.

To continue to share virtual facilitation methods, I’m very happy to announce a new book, Surviving the Horror of Online Meetings.

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Along with the book, I’m launching Survival Tips, a new blog focused solely on virtual facilitation.

Survival Tips isn’t quite ready yet, but you can still sign up to be on the list to receive tips on virtual facilitation and updates on the book. As always, I’ll never sell or share your information with anyone.

And please note: being a Think With Ink subscriber won’t automatically make you a Survival Tips subscriber: you need to sign up!


While the Survival Tips blog still has a little work to do, the book is very nearly ready for launch! Surviving the Horror of Online Meetings takes the dread out of virtual meetings. It’s a survival guide for the online world. It shares simple practices to make your meetings engaging, energetic, and effective. In it, you’ll find:

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  • The new etiquette of online meetings

  • Tips to prevent and overcome technology failures

  • The best ways to manage difficult personalities

  • How to head off distraction and disengagement

  • How to show up as your best self

  • How to make decisions that stick

  • How to create an experience of trust, safety, engagement, and inclusion

Your virtual meetings can stop being nightmares. You can defeat the Meeting Monsters that lurk at the edges of online meetings.

Surviving the Horror of Online Meetings will be available on Amazon in a few weeks. You’ll be notified when it’s available by signing up (same link as before.)


What people are saying about Surviving the Horror of Online Meetings

Brian’s book of ‘frights’ appears after a year of pandemic enforced on-line meetings, and what is looking to be an unprecedented acceleration in the use of collaboration technology. I read his suggestions through the filter of 45 years of experience in this field and a complete pivot to on-line work myself, and it rings true and comprehensive. Bravo! My adrenaline is already pumping as I see those gremlins running for cover.
— David Sibbet, founder and CEO of The Grove Consultants International
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Surviving the Horror of Online Meetings is all about creating online moments of impact! Brian Tarallo reminds us that good meetings can amplify creative possibilities, deepen relationships, and contribute to vibrant and healthy cultures. And bad meetings - filled with avoidable “meeting monsters” - not only stifle innovation and progress, they also erode relational trust and organizational resilience. We can all learn to design better meetings. With an eye towards inclusion and equitable decision making, this book gives you practical advice on how to translate the process of designing good in-person meetings into the virtual space.
— Lisa Kay Solomon, best selling author of Moments of Impact and Design A Better Business
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As world challenges have pushed us into the online space, we’ve had to consider what “connected” really means. The explosion of online meetings have enabled us to keep going and opened the way to a greater diversity of people meeting, but they also amplify everything. Getting skillful in online meetings is not only a necessity, it’s vital in supporting us all to be more inclusive and innovative. I value this pithy and highly practical book, offered with both the wisdom and humor to support all of us to create great meeting spaces online.
— Mary Alice Arthur, Story Activist, Art of Hosting practitioner and author of 365 ALIVE!

Don’t be a victim to bad online meetings! Even if you’re not a professional facilitator, Surviving the Horror of Online Meetings will show you how to take the dread out of online meetings. With an eye towards inclusion and equitable decision making, it will teach you to translate in-person meetings to the virtual space. It’s an essential guide on how to create productive spaces for the people online.

Tap Your Finger, Draw a Picture

My colleague Malgosia Kostecka of Illumistories just came up with icon stamps for Procreate to speed up the workflow, and I’ve been having a lot of fun with it.

From Malgosia:

I'm constantly thinking about how to speed up my workflow and found myself drawing the same icons over and over again...I decided to turn my most used icons into stamp brushes and share them with all of you! You can add these icons to your Procreate canvas with the tap of your stylus and can change their color, size, and opacity. I hope you love these as much as I do!

She’s figured out how to turn icons into brushes, so all you have to do is install the her brush pack (she explains how to do that… it took me about 30 seconds) then tap your finger to make a bullet, banner, cloud, or any one of her icons appear. You can change the size and color of the stamps the same way you would any Procreate brush. Super easy.

Here’s what it looks like onscreen:

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I had to remind myself that these are brushes, not objects. So if you drag your Pencil or finger across the screen, you’ll get a line of the icons dropped wherever you draw. But once an icon is on screen, it’s easy to select, rotate, and reshape them using the Freehand Selection tool to get it exactly where and how you want it.

You can check out Malgosia’s icon stamps here: https://gumroad.com/l/mnIHW

…now I just have to figure out how she did it and make some myself!

PS: It’s not too late to sign up for Lizard Brain’s upcoming Virtual Facilitation Workshop! Click here.

Jan. 7 + 8 - Raise your Virtual Facilitation Game!

New dates for our Virtual Facilitation Workshop: January 7 from 4:00PM to 7:00PM EST and January 8 from 8:30AM to 11:30AM EST

Take your virtual facilitation to the next level

Take your virtual facilitation to the next level

Since 2016, we've taught hundreds of facilitators how to be at their best online. We updated The Virtual Facilitation Workshop in August 2020 to apply the realities of living in an online world. In this 3-hour interactive, online workshop, we’ll cover best practices and activities for facilitating groups online. We'll discuss:

Part 1: Design, Mindset, and Energy Online

  • Welcoming and orienting attendees

  • Designing for participation

  • Managing participants' energy and engagement

Part 2: Facilitation using Zoom - Creating Trust and Connection

  • Developing your appearance online

  • Easing participants into new technology

  • Energizers and connection activities

Part 3: Facilitation using MURAL - Participatory Decision Making

  • Collaborative brainstorming, clustering, and deciding

  • Managing breakouts

  • Participatory group work

In addition to the 3-hour workshop, we’ll stay late for Office Hours to answer in-depth questions.

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Feedback on the Virtual Facilitation Workshop

Sketchnotes from the Virtual Facilitation Workshop by Mike Rohde

Sketchnotes from the Virtual Facilitation Workshop by Mike Rohde

"I really appreciated Brian's ability to pivot in a lightning-fast way to structure the workshop so it benefited our particular team. Every team or organization will have different needs and questions for virtual facilitation, and it felt very 'bespoke' - it's especially impressive because I'm aware he made that happen in real time."

"Overall I thought the workshop was very informative and helpful, and left me with a great deal of things to think about and try in my own virtual facilitation tasks ahead."

"It was quite engaging, timely and enlightening on best practices for being a good virtual facilitator. I particularly liked the use of MURAL, the mood check-ins, polls and activities."

"It was so different than any other workshops I have been in before and I learns so much! A lot of the backstage of facilitation I had no idea about. It was delightful to learn how to use MURAL just a few days after I learned about it!"

"Home run. This is serving the world beautifully in a time of great need."


Brian teaching the Virtual Facilitation Workshop

Brian teaching the Virtual Facilitation Workshop

About Brian

Brian Tarallo is the managing director of Lizard Brain. He is a facilitator who specializes in visual methods and virtual meetings. He works with the healthcare, federal and state government, defense, engineering, and education, and consulting industries.

  • 15 years of experience in facilitation, strategic planning, leadership development and training, organizational development, team development, and visual consulting

  • MBA focusing in development and finance, Arizona State University

  • Certified Professional Facilitator (CPF), International Association of Facilitators (IAF)

  • Certified Virtual Facilitator (CVF), International Institute for Facilitation (INIFAC)

  • Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) Master Practitioner, one of 160 globally

  • Trainer and partner, the Grove Consultants International

  • Contributing author, “The World of Visual Facilitation”; Blijsie, Hamons, & Smith; 2019

  • Author, “Surviving the Horror of Online Meetings”, available early 2021

Procreate Tools

Transitioning from graphic recording to digital scribing? Procreate is fast becoming the digital scribe’s app of choice. You can design and import your own custom brushes and drawing tools, like these custom brushes that simulate Neuland markers from Illumistories.

Procreate also comes with nearly 200 embedded drawing tools. Here’s a quick reference to how each of Procreate’s drawing tools show up:

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My personal favorites:

  • Narinder: for sketching and rough drawing

  • Technical Pen, Fine Tip, and Monoline: for fine and detailed drawing and lettering

  • Flatbrush: for Neuland hand lettering

  • Brush pen and Script: to simulate Neuland Art Markers

  • Softbrush, 2B Compressed, Ultrafine Nozzle, Water Bleed, Wet Sponge, and Wash: for chalk and pastel effects

Nov. 5 - Raise your Virtual Facilitation Game!

New date for our Virtual Facilitation Workshop: November 5 from 11:00AM to 2:00PM EST

Take your virtual facilitation to the next level

Take your virtual facilitation to the next level

Since 2016, we've taught hundreds of facilitators how to be at their best online. We updated The Virtual Facilitation Workshop in August 2020 to apply the realities of living in an online world. In this 3-hour interactive, online workshop, we’ll cover best practices and activities for facilitating groups online. We'll discuss:

Part 1: Design, Mindset, and Energy Online

  • Welcoming and orienting attendees

  • Designing for participation

  • Managing participants' energy and engagement

Part 2: Facilitation using Zoom - Creating Trust and Connection

  • Developing your appearance online

  • Easing participants into new technology

  • Energizers and connection activities

Part 3: Facilitation using MURAL - Participatory Decision Making

  • Collaborative brainstorming, clustering, and deciding

  • Managing breakouts

  • Participatory group work

In addition to the 3-hour workshop, we’ll stay late for Office Hours to answer in-depth questions.

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Feedback on the Virtual Facilitation Workshop

Sketchnotes from the Virtual Facilitation Workshop by Mike Rohde

Sketchnotes from the Virtual Facilitation Workshop by Mike Rohde

"I really appreciated Brian's ability to pivot in a lightning-fast way to structure the workshop so it benefited our particular team. Every team or organization will have different needs and questions for virtual facilitation, and it felt very 'bespoke' - it's especially impressive because I'm aware he made that happen in real time."

"Overall I thought the workshop was very informative and helpful, and left me with a great deal of things to think about and try in my own virtual facilitation tasks ahead."

"It was quite engaging, timely and enlightening on best practices for being a good virtual facilitator. I particularly liked the use of MURAL, the mood check-ins, polls and activities."

"It was so different than any other workshops I have been in before and I learns so much! A lot of the backstage of facilitation I had no idea about. It was delightful to learn how to use MURAL just a few days after I learned about it!"

"Home run. This is serving the world beautifully in a time of great need."


Brian teaching the Virtual Facilitation Workshop

Brian teaching the Virtual Facilitation Workshop

About Brian

Brian Tarallo is the managing director of Lizard Brain. He is a facilitator who specializes in visual methods and virtual meetings. He works with the healthcare, federal and state government, defense, engineering, and education, and consulting industries.

  • 15 years of experience in facilitation, strategic planning, leadership development and training, organizational development, team development, and visual consulting

  • MBA focusing in development and finance, Arizona State University

  • Certified Professional Facilitator (CPF), International Association of Facilitators (IAF)

  • Certified Virtual Facilitator (CVF), International Institute for Facilitation (INIFAC)

  • Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) Master Practitioner, one of 160 globally

  • Trainer and partner, the Grove Consultants International

  • Contributing author, “The World of Visual Facilitation”; Blijsie, Hamons, & Smith; 2019

  • Author, “Surviving the Horror of Online Meetings”, available early 2021

Give Me a Sign: Nonverbal Communication for Online Meetings

Over the last several months, I’ve taught hundreds of facilitators how to manage meetings online. And I consistently hear the same challenge: online meetings suppress many of the modes of nonverbal communication that facilitators are attuned to. They say it is like their intuitive “sense of the room” has been dampened or muted altogether. But I believe online meetings give us an opportunity to adapt, to learn other modes of communication that can compensate for what we may have lost by not being together.

I’ve used simple phrases in American Sign Language in facilitation for years. It’s tremendously helpful when co-facilitating in person. You and your partner can communicate silently and subtly, to make suggestions or quick changes to each other across the room. But I only got the idea to share ASL with participants of online meetings at a recent Design for DC Meetup event hosted by Jo Golden and Erin Nicole Gordon.

A problem of online meetings is that they amplify “production blocking,” the effect of one person speaking and thereby preventing the other participants from contributing their ideas. However, by introducing some simple signs, participants can use their hands and their webcams to stay engaged and communicate simple feelings and ideas without disrupting the lone speaker.

Share the videos below with your participants before or at the beginning of a meeting. Make it safe for participants to use what you share with them by modeling it yourself. Remind them that there are plenty of situations that call for hand signals to communicate nonverbally, from scuba diving to bicycling.

Let’s work together to make signing a part of online meetings.

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Yes

Use to show agreement, approval, or to respond positively to a question

No

Use to show disagreement, disapproval, or to respond negatively to a question


Nice.

Use to show appreciation

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Good idea

Use to show approval or appreciation

Understand

Use to indicate you understand a statement or question.

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Help

Use to ask for help or assistance

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Sorry

Use to apologize

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Break

Use to indicate you/we need a break

Wait

Use to ask for patience or a brief pause

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Finish

Use to indicate that time is coming to an end and to ask the presenter or speaker to come to a close

Stop

Use to indicate time has elapsed and to ask the presenter or speaker to stop

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Deaf or unable to hear

Use to indicate you can’t hear the speaker and they may need to take themselves off mute 

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Mute

Use to remind participants to place themselves on mute

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Slow

Use to ask the presenter or speaker to slow down

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Fast

Use to ask the presenter or speaker to speed up

(This is one of my favorite signs. Ka-chow!)

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Continue

Use to indicate to the speaker “GEPO” (Good Enough, Push On) or “ELMO” (Enough, Let's Move On)

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Please

Use to politely confirm a request

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Thank you

Use to show appreciate and thanks